Thursday, June 18, 2020

Life# single to mingle# challenges

In day to day life we are facing a lot of challenges specially after marriage manage your work place and home together. Initially it goes so smuth like a fresh new start of a new chapter or nothing changed but slowly slowly it get converted into responsibility. Days goes like every morning 🌞 with preparing breakfast,lunch and get ready for work, again evening 😴 comes with log off n tea, snacks and than dinner ohhh god life is just running no time for your own what to do?????
Another new chapter comes child!!!!!!!!!!!!! so lovely 😍 and precious moment new life plays in your hands, ohhh feels like miracle happened than days started running again you have to do office work with child omg the biggest part of life that makes us so much busy not even thinking for ourself make up gone, breakfast!!!! @ time of lunch n no rest just run n run,,,,, hhhhhmmmm EOD decision comes like this is too much now I can't continue my job man πŸ˜­πŸ˜’, it's damm horrible everyday life is just running like anything, So finally after some time decided to leave the job.
Another new chapter open now 24*7 active and busy lifestyle, first baby than house work and than if you have lil time for yourself than see your face in mirror. 
Than husband said why don't you try for online business anything like networking or tuter, hhhmm than mind started thinking thinking thinking finally got an Idea 😁

So now decided to do clothing business.
Initially contacted many wholesalers, shops and people but no luck, nothing worked, than finally got one wholesale dealer who help me to set up my business n started growing slowly, firstly started very small clothing store at home but very less people were aware only family and neighbours  again thought what to do for publicity of it!!!????  Than started sharing clothing images on groups, started talking to more people and started contacting with resellers, now feeling my business is on its track finally, started getting orders in bulk, it was very awesome moment when I was feeling that now all set for my future 😊 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It was going very smoothly but suddenly I meet with a new dealer who was ready to arrange all materials immediately but demanded extra amount for it, before that also I have deal with other people also but they never demanded and not even asked for this sort of deal, but I thought ok let's accept this deal will see whatever happens.......!!!!!

That dealer has given all the clothing material and said if you will not able to sale all those things you can return me and I will refund your money,  it was just an oral communication no proof, even I didn't think that time it's a big deal I have to take proof but because of trust as I was having on My other clothing dealers I didn't think that much and return my home and paid full amount whatever demanded. 
As much I can sale I did but some material left which no one was ready to buy, so I called that dealer while saying that this much left now Which I can't sale so I want you to take it and as we discussed you are going to refund the amount whatever extra, that dealer just ignored my thing and said how can I return you the money we didn't discussed anything like that you are going to pay me whatever material left with you or if you want you will purchase more, but I am not going to pay you anything, omg I just lost because I was feeling now it's going to over whatever I did my all efforts, my time, my money all my dreams with business is going to finish now, because I have faced this situation and that dealer first doesn't know the value of words, again days started running, I was calling again n again to that person but dealers replies was like I am out of town,I am busy, I don't have time again I called finally while saying whatever it is if you want to continue this business than lets meet, ups and downs are coming in every business but this is not done, you are not replying properly and not even ready to meet and close these all, so after some days finally we meet and I explained a lot to that person, showed that transactions details as well (thank god atleast that was available with me) so after 2 hours of discussion finally it sorted, too much arguments happened and finally that person realise and ready to refund my money and next morning I received the amount, ohhh god it was horrible this much loudly and strictly I never talked and this phase teaches me that never trust anyone in business without proof because in today's scenario all are just thinking for own profit "no value of words" in market, even if you are thinking to go through any small business also than first thing is proof it could be anything like on paper written agreement sort of thing or sms or messages or E-mail by the third person with whom you are dealing.

Now my business is going on will see how much it will grow and I hope again I and not any other person will face any money minded people.πŸ€ͺ


Thanks friendsπŸ™πŸ€˜πŸ™‚

Will see you soon again with new chapterπŸ˜„let me think what it will be πŸ€”πŸ™„

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